During our last week of senior year in high school, Mr. Shimmon made us each self-address a letter to our future selves that he would send to us in four years. He must have miscalculated because my mom received the letter a few weeks ago in the mail.
My handwriting’s still the same–bubbly and round and big–and the binder (yeah, Norcal) paper that I wrote on is imprinted with my words. The letter is dated June 5, 2008, and it starts off by saying “Dear Older You,” which, in hindsight, doesn’t quite make sense.
You are old now. No more making of Tim and Rosa while holding onto your youthful 17. Hah, little did you know, younger version of me, that I would receive this two years earlier than anticipated and that I would still cling onto my youth. Dumb younger version.
The next section takes into account that this is four years later. What is your career? Did you really end up majoring in Soc? Huh. This means that I was doubtful that I would actually do Sociology. Are you still community-based? Not as much as I’d like to say I am.
MOST IMPORTANTLY, have you gotten your stupid driving license yet? …Well done, 17-year-old Connie, well done. Way to call me out on it. It also seems like everyone (and apparently my high school self) asks me this question whenever I am back.
I wonder who your friends are now. More UCLA folks or still Cal (I think I meant high school) friends? I’m happy to say that it is a mix of the two.
As to me, I am doing well. Of course I would be arrogant enough to think that my future self would care about my current wellbeing. It’s Thursday, the last day of actual school and I’m late. AGAIN. I told Kyo and Jeffrey I’d meet them during mods 4-5 (HAH, the mod system) to plan out elections, but you know me. Again, the assumptions.
High school, I just realized, is only part one of my formative years. How accurate and wise and cliche I was!
In theory, right now, you’re unafraid of most things. But I do hope you’ll learn how to act to protect what matters most to you. Not to mention stop shying away from relationships and so easily dismissing people.
I am surprised at how well I knew myself at 17 to be able to write that. It feels like a friend gently rebuking and reminding me of a promise that I made to her. I am content and peaceful and in awe of her youthful wisdom and honesty.
It is then dated June 6, 2008, which means that I procrastinated and finished my letter to my self a day after I started it. I wish I had written more but I’m happy with what I’ve written. It’s something to remember.
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